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Louise Beattie | Modern Business For Solopreneurs and Small Businesses

What your customers aren't telling you (but should be)

Published 8 months ago • 2 min read

Here's a surprising truth about customer research that most business owners don't realise: Your customers aren't telling you what you really need to know.

Not because they're hiding anything, but because they often can't articulate what truly drives their decisions deep down.

Think about the last time you asked customers what they want. You probably got responses like:

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• "Better quality"
• "Good service"
• "Value for money"

Surface-level answers that barely scratch the surface of the fears, dreams, and deeply personal motivations that actually drive their buying decisions.

The real insights - the ones that could transform your marketing - lie in the unspoken thoughts and feelings that keep your ideal clients awake at night.

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When I work with businesses on their marketing foundations, I see this pattern repeatedly. They've done their research. They've asked all the right questions. Yet their marketing still isn't connecting the way it should, and they can't understand why.

Here's the truth: Traditional customer research often focuses on what customers say they want, rather than understanding the deeper emotional drivers behind those wants.

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Let me show you what I mean:

Example 1: The Brand Photographer​
What clients say: "I need professional photos for my website."
What they really mean: "Every time I see my current photos, I cringe. I know I'm better than this image shows, but I'm terrified of being judged. I need someone who can capture the confidence I feel inside but struggle to show the world."

Example 2: The Web Designer​
What clients say: "I need a new website."
What they really mean: "I lie awake at night worrying that I'm losing dream clients because my website doesn't reflect the quality of my work. I pour my heart into every project, but my online presence makes me look amateur. I need someone who can help me finally feel proud to share my website link."

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This deeper understanding changes everything:​
• Your marketing speaks directly to those quiet fears and secret hopes
• Your content resonates on an emotional level
• Your offers solve the deeper transformations they're really seeking

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This is why thorough customer research isn't just another marketing task - it's the foundation everything else builds upon.

Without it, you're essentially marketing in the dark, hoping to connect with the right people while missing the very insights that could make your message magnetic.

The transformation is clear:​
When you truly understand what drives your ideal clients' decisions, marketing stops feeling like shouting into the void. Instead, it becomes a natural conversation with people who recognise themselves in your every word.

I'll be sharing more about this approach soon, including something that might surprise you about how to uncover these deeper insights effectively.

What hidden motivations might your ideal clients have? What are they really lying awake thinking about at night?

Hit reply - I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Until tomorrow,

Louise

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Louise Beattie

​Forge & Flourish​

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Louise Beattie | Modern Business For Solopreneurs and Small Businesses

Founder of Forge & Flourish, Heroic Coach®, and dog lover with an insatiable curiousity, redefining success with AI

I help solopreneurs, small business owners and professionals build modern businesses that thrive in a post-AI world through smart AI use—amplifying their sovereign minds for more freedom and revenue, and lives that matter with greater time, connection, and purpose. Join a community of bold thinkers using AI to create lives they love.

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